One of the things that’s going to get you into the right headspace for dealing with a man (and believe me, to follow the knowledge in this site, and to keep growing, and doing better than yesterday, you need to be in the right frame of mind!!) is to remember and truly understand something that you have heard a million times.
It’s not the destination; it’s the journey.
The destination will allow you to express your mastery of the area you choose; to demonstrate the level of perfection you have achieved. This is pleasurable for human beings which is why we always try to be the best in something. Whether that’s reaching the top of the career ladder; looking like a beautiful human being; or in this case having the harmonious and loving relationship you desire.
But to get there, you need to learn how to be happy in doing the everyday tasks relating to your goal because ultimately, this is what life is.
Being happy in your day-to-day life is what’s going to give you the tools to respond effectively to the men in your life. Your calmness, and your ability to think before speaking, is what will make you a joy to be with in life; rather than a drain. This emotional intelligence is what men see in a woman after the initial impression of beauty; and this is what keeps you in their life… or makes them long for you to be their life partner. An understanding and patience when it comes to how men really are is what will get you far.
And to do that, you need to be calm and happy within yourself.
So enjoy your life. If you don’t, alter the things you don’t like and do more of what you love. How to do that is beyond the scope of this piece of writing but it’s something you can certainly research.
When you feel ready, come back and learn about true femininity.