Playing Men At Their Own Game (Here’s How)

• Him ignoring you is a very, very common and calculating strategy men put in place temporarily to achieve one of the following:

1. To find out how much you like him
2. To increase your interest in him (uncertainty creates attraction)
3. To simply get rid of you in a less harsher way than simply telling you he isn’t interested (this may not have been the primary aim, but your reaction to this strategy could cause your value to fall in his eyes)

• some men, particularly those who you meet online – but especially those who you don’t know much about , will only implement this strategy after they have “lured” you in…this means, a man may show a stark contrast in his behaviour from the way he was at the start. Men you don’t know will put in effort to prove themselves, otherwise it wouldn’t make sense for them to disappear so early (unless they simply don’t like you).

• Given the above, your options are as follows, depending on how the situation turns out:

1. if he does reappear after a few days, take at least 2-3 days to get back to him. When you do get back to him, appear happy and light, as if you barely noticed he was gone. This way, he sees he doesn’t have a 100% hold on you (why men love bitches, sherry argov) and your attraction to him grows, and yet he still knows things with you are possible. He won’t give up. He’s a hunter.
2. If he does NOT reappear, do not by any means get in contact with him. For any reason. At all. Why? Because this man has just shown you that he is absolutely not interested. There’s a chance that if you do get in touch with him, he will use you. And play with your emotions further.
3. With regards to the previous point, please understand that some men are very insecure and that he may have been interested in you but thought he’d play a game however -because you are a valuable, desirable female – he is now beaten by his own game as he doesn’t have you at all. This is not the kind of man you want to end up with as the relationship would always be on his terms.

 

If you need further explanation of what the above means, or have your own situation that needs a personal analysis – you can book a consult with me, see details on contact page for my email address and I will provide you with a list of services.

Your Breakthrough Is On The Way

What are you waiting for? Don’t you believe you deserve it? Or do you not truly believe that you’re ready to receive it? If you don’t have it…it’s because you’re not as ready as you think you are.I remember every time I thought I was ready for something, and didn’t get it, I would learn later that I wasn’t really ready.We think we’re ready, but there is always something we can be doing to grow while we wait. God won’t put more on us than we can bear, so we have to trust His perfect timing.The Universe is conspiring for your success. Things are shifting in YOUR favor and everything must be aligned in order for you to receive your blessing.While you’re waiting, keep working on you. Force yourself to grow. Get more knowledge in that area and read more about it.Talk more about it…work towards it, and you’ll get closer each day. What you don’t understand now, you’ll understand later. It’ll all makes sense and you’ll see that His timing is perfect.It doesn’t make sense in the moment, while you’re waiting on your breakthrough, but when you do finally get your breakthrough…you’ll be happy.So sit, pray and continue to have faith–then, get to work. All while being patient–patience is the virtue.Don’t let the wait hurt you, let it help you.Your breakthrough is on the way.Blessings,Tony Gaskins Jr.

Source: Your Breakthrough Is On The Way

Is He Taking You For Granted?

DIY spaI’m baaack! And it’s time to get you all sorted because I’m still inundated with emails from you girls about what to do when he’s TREATING YOU BAD! So I have news….!!!

You can now join our INVISIBLE, SECRET group on Facebook to ask your questions to me and the other experienced girls!

You can find it here! Once you’ve clicked join I will approve as soon as I can. But why join? You’ll…

♥ Get all the information you could need on getting that guy! If he has pulled back, lost interest or isn’t texting/calling you, we’ll tell you why and how to fix it!

♥ Find out a bit more about how a guy’s interest peaks up and down and how to make it a bit more consistent.

♥ Have ALL and ANY questions answered by members who are experienced and knowledgeable about the best tools!

So join Glam Guide’s Get The Guy secret group today and don’t forget to like us on Facebook!

Cheers to that,

Stephanie x

 

 

What To Read When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Text You Back

How long should I wait to respond to his text message? Can I friend him on Facebook? Why did he ask for my number but never call me?

I am so excited that the rules have been refreshed, updated and republished for 2013!

(For a discussion on all things rules-related, head to the forum!)

When The Rules was published in 1995, its message was straightforward: be mysterious. But for women looking for love today, it’s not quite so simple. In a world of instant messaging, location check-ins, and status updates, where hook-ups have become the norm and formal one-on-one dates seem a thing of the past, it’s difficult to retain the air of mystery that keeps men interested.

Now, with help from their daughters, the original Rules Girls Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider share their thoroughly modern, fresh take on dating that will help women in today’s information age create the happy love lives they want and deserve. Whether you’re a 20-something dating for the first time, a 30-something tired of being single, a 40-something giving advice to your daughter, or a 50-something getting back in the dating game, this book has the answers you’ve been waiting for. The Rules include:

Stay Away from his Facebook Profile
Make Yourself Invisible and Other Ways to Get Out of Instant Messaging
Stop Dating a Guy Who Cancels More than Once
Text-Back Times Chart
Don’t Just Hang Out or See Him 24/7
TTYL: Always End Everything First– Get Out of There!
And much, much more!

Providing the dos and don’ts you need to stop making mistakes and start finding romance, NOT YOUR MOTHER’S RULES will revolutionize dating today just as The Rules did nearly 20 years ago!

What To Do When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Text Back

So it’s midnight and you’re still awake, yet complaining you are tired and want to sleep…

Why does this happen pretty much every night?

Ooh, er…cos you’re still waiting on his text. Again. For the nth night running.

Still. Waiting. On. Him.

But you just want to know he’s okay before you rest your head to sleep on that lovely pillow… but how can you sleep?!?! Isn’t it ‘SO WIERD’ he hasn’t texted yet?!?!

For the love of all, please let me help you.

Let’s start with a quiz to gauge where you’re at. Be honest, when waiting for your BF to respond, do you:

A)   text him asking “are you ok?????”

B)   text him “have I done something 2 upset u? txt bk xoxoxoxoxoxox” (please never do this)

C)   call him. (forget it)

D)   Watch a film, scoff your face with one hand and hold your phone in the other.

E)   Calm down, put your wig back on and read this. (pick this one)

 

a) Do you want to make your current boyfriend want you more?
or
b) Do you want to be with mr right?

 

If you’re answer is a), head to this article and then this one. But please be aware that this guy is probably not Mr Right…

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