Developing the Strength to Cope With Men

One of the things that’s going to get you into the right headspace for dealing with a man (and believe me, to follow the knowledge in this site, and to keep growing, and doing better than yesterday, you need to be in the right frame of mind!!) is to remember and truly understand something that you have heard a million times.

It’s not the destination; it’s the journey.

The destination will allow you to express your mastery of the area you choose; to demonstrate the level of perfection you have achieved. This is pleasurable for human beings which is why we always try to be the best in something. Whether that’s reaching the top of the career ladder; looking like a beautiful human being; or in this case having the harmonious and loving relationship you desire.

But to get there, you need to learn how to be happy in doing the everyday tasks relating to your goal because ultimately, this is what life is.

Being happy in your day-to-day life is what’s going to give you the tools to respond effectively to the men in your life. Your calmness, and your ability to think before speaking, is what will make you a joy to be with in life; rather than a drain. This emotional intelligence is what men see in a woman after the initial impression of beauty; and this is what keeps you in their life… or makes them long for you to be their life partner. An understanding and patience when it comes to how men really are is what will get you far.
And to do that, you need to be calm and happy within yourself.

So enjoy your life. If you don’t, alter the things you don’t like and do more of what you love. How to do that is beyond the scope of this piece of writing but it’s something you can certainly research.
When you feel ready, come back and learn about true femininity.

Playing Men At Their Own Game (Here’s How)

• Him ignoring you is a very, very common and calculating strategy men put in place temporarily to achieve one of the following:

1. To find out how much you like him
2. To increase your interest in him (uncertainty creates attraction)
3. To simply get rid of you in a less harsher way than simply telling you he isn’t interested (this may not have been the primary aim, but your reaction to this strategy could cause your value to fall in his eyes)

• some men, particularly those who you meet online – but especially those who you don’t know much about , will only implement this strategy after they have “lured” you in…this means, a man may show a stark contrast in his behaviour from the way he was at the start. Men you don’t know will put in effort to prove themselves, otherwise it wouldn’t make sense for them to disappear so early (unless they simply don’t like you).

• Given the above, your options are as follows, depending on how the situation turns out:

1. if he does reappear after a few days, take at least 2-3 days to get back to him. When you do get back to him, appear happy and light, as if you barely noticed he was gone. This way, he sees he doesn’t have a 100% hold on you (why men love bitches, sherry argov) and your attraction to him grows, and yet he still knows things with you are possible. He won’t give up. He’s a hunter.
2. If he does NOT reappear, do not by any means get in contact with him. For any reason. At all. Why? Because this man has just shown you that he is absolutely not interested. There’s a chance that if you do get in touch with him, he will use you. And play with your emotions further.
3. With regards to the previous point, please understand that some men are very insecure and that he may have been interested in you but thought he’d play a game however -because you are a valuable, desirable female – he is now beaten by his own game as he doesn’t have you at all. This is not the kind of man you want to end up with as the relationship would always be on his terms.

 

If you need further explanation of what the above means, or have your own situation that needs a personal analysis – you can book a consult with me, see details on contact page for my email address and I will provide you with a list of services.

Get The Guy. Stage One: Finding Him/Getting His Attention

get his attentionImagine you are online dating site. You have amazing pictures up, a good yet mysterious description, and a decent guy contacts you. A few exchanges later, you are really excited because he asks you on a date. If you are like many girls out there, you would put a little more care into getting ready for this date than you would if you, say, were going to work or the supermarket. You take the necessary steps to ensure you have the best chances of him finding you attractive, right?

So the thing is, while you’re going to the supermarket or work, you have JUST AS MUCH CHANCE if not MORE to attract a guy. There are loads of guys out there in your day-to-day life who would be bowled over by how you look on a date – so why not look like that everyday and maximise your chances?! You need to put in the same amount of effort as you would going on a date or as you would if you were taking an online dating profile picture.

The truth is anyone can be made attractive, it just takes some of us more work and effort than others. And if you think that’s shallow – take a reality check – the majority of men out notice women who they find attractive. Not saying that’s the only way to attract a man, but it’s the way to find a lot more new ones. And dating is a numbers game if you want the best quality.

If a man can see that you are making the best of what you have, he subconsciously knows that you take care of yourself. You don’t have to do what every other woman does or have the same hairstyle, just do what you know suits you, what gives you confidence!

 

For extra help, here are some of the things that The Rules advise. You don’t need to agree or follow, but these tips are if you want to attract as many men as possible. Dating is a numbers game!

♥ Wear a short skirt, but not too short – if you have the legs for it

♥ Wear stylish, sexy clothes with nice colours!

♥ Don’t be a fashion slave – Find out what suits you

♥ Diet and exercise – if you are overweight wear black, it’s slimming

♥ Wear makeup that suits you – never leave the house without makeup!

♥ Grow your hair long – men like long and feminine styles.

♥ Have good grooming habits – manicures, pedicures, facials

♥ Wear perfume

♥ Act like a woman, be happy and not depressed. Smile!

 

Don’t forget we have a secret Facebook group for any advice you may need..

xx

 

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